You've thought about it.Now think it through.

Meanwhile shows you the real numbers for your situation: what's in your accounts, what you'd get, what you'd live on. By the rules where you live, whatever you decide.Real numbers for your situation: what's in your accounts, what you'd get, what you'd live on. By the rules where you live, whatever you decide.

Start the three-minute check-in

No name, no email to start.Nothing reaches your phone.

A month on your own

With the kids living mostly with you

Coming in
$3,900 – 4,500
Going out
$3,600 – 4,300

Close to even, with some room.

Still guessesHis take-homeRentHealth insurance
An example. Yours runs on where you live and your answers.

What it answers

Three questions most of us can't answer yet.

Not "should I?" That part is yours. Just the facts you'd want before deciding anything, either way.Not "should I?" That part is yours. Just the facts you'd want first, either way.

  1. one

    What's in our accounts?

    List what you know and guess the rest. See whose name is on what, and why the name doesn't always decide.List what you know and guess the rest. See whose name is on what, and why it doesn't always decide.

  2. two

    What would I get?

    Support, worked out the way it's done where you live. Your likely share of the house, savings and retirement. As ranges, not promises.Support, worked out the way it's done where you live, and your likely share of the house, savings and retirement.

  3. three

    What would I live on?

    A month on your own, side by side: what comes in, what goes out, and which guess moves it most.A month on your own: what comes in, what goes out, and which guess moves it most.

How it works

Three minutes of questions. Then your plan.

1

Answer quietly

Where you live, how long you've been married, the kids, rough incomes. Guesses are fine. No name, no email to start.Where you live, the kids, rough incomes. Guesses are fine.

2

See your plan

Support, what's likely yours, the house three ways, and a first-90-days list. Built from the rules where you live, as ranges.Support, what's likely yours, the house three ways, the first 90 days.

3

Keep asking

Ask anything and get an answer for where you live. A new short read opens in Paths each day: money, kids, housing, and if you stay.Answers for where you live, and a new read each day.

Plan, Ask and Paths. Opens in your browser and installs like an app.Opens in your browser. Installs like an app.

Where the numbers come from

The rules where you live, not a national average.

  • From the source

    Support formulas, property rules and tax tables come from the law and official guidelines where you live. The key rules in your plan show where they come from.Formulas, property rules and tax tables come from the law and official guidelines where you live. Key rules show where they come from.

  • Always the latest

    Rules change. Your plan is worked out each time you open it, from the latest rules we have.Your plan is worked out each time you open it, from the latest rules we have.

  • Worked out, not made up

    Your plan is calculated from your answers and those rules, with no AI involved. Ask is an AI, and it answers from the same rules.Your plan is calculated from your answers, with no AI involved. Ask is an AI, and it answers from the same rules.

  • Ranges, and what they rest on

    Every figure is a range that says how many guesses it rests on. Information, not legal or financial advice.Every figure is a range that says how many guesses it rests on.

Knowing isn't deciding.

Checking your numbers commits you to nothing. It ends the guessing about money, the house and whose name is on what. Your plan gives staying the same care as going.Checking your numbers commits you to nothing. It ends the guessing about money, the house and whose name is on what.

If you stay

You stay knowing the whole picture, not because you never looked.You know the whole picture.

If you go

You know what to expect, what to gather, and roughly when.You know what to expect, and when.

Private by design

This stays yours. Here's how it looks from the outside.This stays yours.

Meanwhile

That's all your phone shows.

  • Nothing reaches your phone

    No notifications, ever. The few emails we send have plain subject lines.No notifications. Few emails, with plain subject lines.

  • Never sold

    We don't sell your answers or your plan. Not to anyone, not ever.Your answers and your plan are never sold.

  • Locked when you want it

    Your face, fingerprint or passcode opens it. One tap hides it.Your face, fingerprint or passcode opens it.

  • Gone when you say so

    Delete your plan, answers and account from Settings. For good, in one step.Delete everything from Settings, in one step.

Questions

What people ask first.

Something else? Write to [email protected]. A person answers, usually within a day.

Just the name Meanwhile. No texts, no calls, no notifications. By email, only a receipt and sign-in codes, with plain subject lines. Nothing on your statement says what it's for, and you can lock it with your face, fingerprint or passcode.

Something else? Write to [email protected]. A person answers, usually within a day.

Whatever you decide, know your numbers first.

Start the three-minute check-in

Private. No name, no email to start.